Shed the Layers with your S/O

Please shed your layers to your significant other. It is extremely difficult to try to figure someone out when they continuously keep on their shields.

I know many stay on defense mode because of past relationship failures and mistreatment. That is understandable, however, you can’t fully commit to someone without giving your true self. True self includes your beauty, flaws, dreams and nightmares etc.

What I’m writing isn’t Law but something that I think is worth a chance. For all you know, you could be missing out on a beautiful companionship all because you don’t want to seem “Soft” or “weak“. Think about it.

thanks for reading friends!

Nicole Cherise !

It’s ok to apologize..

Some of us have the biggest issue to admit that we can be wrong or did wrong. Nothing is wrong with apologizing to help the healing process of broken relationships. Nothing is wrong with being the “bigger” person and to decide that you would apologize to calm down the hostility.

Think about it… life is full circle and we aren’t meant to walk this earth forever. Could you imagine if something happened to a loved one or friend and you were speaking because of a PETTY situation? Or because Both parties were too prideful to come to speaking terms. Sigh….

I pray that many can achieve this act one day before it may be too late.

thanks for reading!

Nicole Cherise ♥️

My Mother’s Day Thoughts

Mother… the hardest task, but most rewarding job. Sometimes, I sit and watch my son running around and I just smile because I’m so grateful that he’s here.

Many pray for the opportunity to be a mom after years of trying to conceive. Many women are physically told that they can’t conceive or won’t be able to carry a baby. These are women who still walk past us with smiles to hide their sadness, they attend baby showers left and right, some have anger issues, some have lost children as well… yet God chose me?

My Mother’s Day Thoughts are for us Moms to remember the process. Be grateful to have our little ones. Be grateful that no matter how difficult the ride may be, it serves a deeper purpose and we are you blessed. Many would trade places with us in a heartbeat. I, too, must remember this when I get frustrated.

Continue to do our hard work, stay committed and loving. Our future depends on it.

Happy Mother’s Day to all I’m this Role

Nicole Cherise ♥️

Our attitude will and always will be Everything

I believe we are heavily connected to the universe. Spiritual, physical, mental and emotional values make us who we are. With knowing that, our attitude means everything for us.

If a person views things only negatively, then more than likely he/she would be surrounded with negative energy. On the contrary, someone with positive energy will attract positivity.

I know life is tough and it’s not fair, however, let’s try to see the silver lining in some of our daily situations. Easier said than done, but at least we can take the first step with a better attititude.

Thanks for reading!

Nicole Cherise ♥️

Sometimes it IS all in our heads

Time and time again we hear this tape that runs through our head filled with doubts. We tell ourselves what we Can’t do, how we won’t be successful, we say that we fail at everything, we won’t find Love, or that our goals will never be accomplished.

We grow bitter, angry, we’re constantly on edge. We sometimes even blame others for why we are slacking. This same tape says: “it’s Us against the World” when in reality, it’s US against Ourselves.

It is ALL IN OUR HEADS because we put it there.

Is this you? Has this been you? When did you realize that enough was enough? I realized this tape that I put into my head a while ago and trust it takes time to work through this process. Hold on Dear Friends, you are not alone!

Thanks for reading,

Nicole Cherise ♥️

Blind Faith

Keeping the faith when you can’t see the end result. We are visual creatures and are skeptical if we are told the dream, but don’t see the success in the palm of our hands. That’s when blind faith Steps In.

Blind Faith.. A necessity with any phase of life. We need it for our families, our relationships and career. I believe that we have a blueprint set for us and we will endure the challenges/turmoil along the way, but keeping that blind faith is what can help us succeed.

Is this easy to grasp? NOPE! Is it worth it? Yes. Hold on Friends, we WILL make it. We WILL Win! We got this!

Thanks for reading!

Nicole Cherise ♥️

4/13/2010, MSanniversary

Today is a day that I will always remember because it was the day my life changed forever. “You have MS, Nicole” were words that made me scared and relieved at the same time. After not being to operate my legs, numbness in my hands and feet, weakness in my limbs, I felt relief that I wasn’t crazy. Can you imagine having to tell yourself to pick up your foot as you walk? Or not realizing that you are holding a cup because you couldn’t feel it in your hand? I knew I had to get tough and battle this diagnosis. I never knew how strong I was until being strong was the only option. I have my cheerful days and I Also have days of being scared. Scared that if this disease progresses having the ability to walk or needing assistance like some of my other fellow MS Warriors. I feel like maybe that’s my purpose in life, to inspire others who may think they are alone with any health diagnosis and encourage them to keep going. My faith and relationship with the Lord grew deeper. My family and SOME of my friends bonds grew closer. I’ve met some amazing people on this journey and look forward to a CURE!!