Hey guys! Sorry for the late post. Today has been pretty busy but I’m here now! Today’s topic is : friends that are jealous.
We all know that jealousy is an unfortunate trait that we all may have at some point in life, however, is it appropriate in friendships?
Jealousy- wanting what some one has. Many throw the phrases ” ohh I’m jealous” or “I’m jelly right now” in a joking manner and it could be in the best regards. However, On the other hand, there are people who are upset and really mad that they don’t or can’t have what you have.
In my opinion, friends that are genuine would Not be seriously jealous of your progress or possessions. I’ve always had an attitude that if one of my friends did well, we all did well. There is no need to be mad or down that certain things hasn’t happened for me because I believe what can happen for one, can happen for me as well. We all have choices and our outlook on ourselves are important.
If you are a jealous friend, please stop. While you are busy being jealous, you are missing out on the blessings coming your way. So instead of being jealous, tell yourself ” when it’s my turn, I will be as happy as my friend is. I’m happy for him/her and I’m looking forward to us both winning”. Keep the good vibe rolling friends.
Nicole Cherise