Hi friends!
What scares you the most Getting married or having a child?
I’ve heard many people say they are scared to get married yet are fine with having a child.
Personally, becoming a parent has been the scariest task ever. From pregnancy, birth and raising another human who NEEDS you 24/7 365/366 is the most important job to have. Therefore, I’m constantly worried and at times can be overwhelmed but in a good way 😊.
What are your thoughts?
Nicole Cherise ❤
Marriage because there is always that wonder if your enough, are you a good wife, do you look ok, etc the anxiety of it all.
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Ok that’s understandable. It is a lot of pressure of marriage but I’m more scared of being a good parent and having good skills.
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Everyone wants to be a good parent.(for some) your hard effort and skills from your parents helps with that. Your dealing with a child who is learning from you. If people are afraid of being a parent then don’t be. Everyone must take a leap of faith. And honestly with “christians” faith is all you need right!
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Not only faith, hard work and dedication.
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True
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Yes yes. 😚
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I’m not fearful of either yet I know once a baby does come, he or she will scare me plenty! Those times having to send him to daycare or school or his first out of town soccer game.. ah!
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lol exactly! I wasn’t scared to get married but since being a mother, I’m constantly worried about my son.
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Not to say I don’t worry about my husband but there is a big difference.
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Oh I am sure!
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Yes yes Dear
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I’m scared to have a child. I’m afraid of pregnancy complications and I’m also afraid of ruining my child. I know that sounds incredibly morbid but I’m being honest.
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No, it sounds honest and I respect it. I think you would be a great mom ijs 😚
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Well coming from you, that’s a compliment to say the least. You are like – mom of the year lol
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Awww thanks so much!! One day at a time. Learning and growing along with him.
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