Month: May 2018

Shed the Layers with your S/O

Please shed your layers to your significant other. It is extremely difficult to try to figure someone out when they continuously keep on their shields.

I know many stay on defense mode because of past relationship failures and mistreatment. That is understandable, however, you can’t fully commit to someone without giving your true self. True self includes your beauty, flaws, dreams and nightmares etc.

What I’m writing isn’t Law but something that I think is worth a chance. For all you know, you could be missing out on a beautiful companionship all because you don’t want to seem “Soft” or “weak“. Think about it.

thanks for reading friends!

Nicole Cherise !

It’s ok to apologize..

Some of us have the biggest issue to admit that we can be wrong or did wrong. Nothing is wrong with apologizing to help the healing process of broken relationships. Nothing is wrong with being the “bigger” person and to decide that you would apologize to calm down the hostility.

Think about it… life is full circle and we aren’t meant to walk this earth forever. Could you imagine if something happened to a loved one or friend and you were speaking because of a PETTY situation? Or because Both parties were too prideful to come to speaking terms. Sigh….

I pray that many can achieve this act one day before it may be too late.

thanks for reading!

Nicole Cherise ♥️

My Mother’s Day Thoughts

Mother… the hardest task, but most rewarding job. Sometimes, I sit and watch my son running around and I just smile because I’m so grateful that he’s here.

Many pray for the opportunity to be a mom after years of trying to conceive. Many women are physically told that they can’t conceive or won’t be able to carry a baby. These are women who still walk past us with smiles to hide their sadness, they attend baby showers left and right, some have anger issues, some have lost children as well… yet God chose me?

My Mother’s Day Thoughts are for us Moms to remember the process. Be grateful to have our little ones. Be grateful that no matter how difficult the ride may be, it serves a deeper purpose and we are you blessed. Many would trade places with us in a heartbeat. I, too, must remember this when I get frustrated.

Continue to do our hard work, stay committed and loving. Our future depends on it.

Happy Mother’s Day to all I’m this Role

Nicole Cherise ♥️