Please shed your layers to your significant other. It is extremely difficult to try to figure someone out when they continuously keep on their shields.
I know many stay on defense mode because of past relationship failures and mistreatment. That is understandable, however, you can’t fully commit to someone without giving your true self. True self includes your beauty, flaws, dreams and nightmares etc.
What I’m writing isn’t Law but something that I think is worth a chance. For all you know, you could be missing out on a beautiful companionship all because you don’t want to seem “Soft” or “weak“. Think about it.
thanks for reading friends!
Nicole Cherise !