Category: Feel good Friday’s

Feel Good Friday: Seek comfort in your S.O. but don’t get too Comfortable. 

Hi friends! Happy Friday to all! 
Isn’t this always the topic of discussion amongst friends? You are deeply in love with your partner. You reached a place in the relationship where you are happy, trusting and loyal to one another. However, some how, you both get too “comfortable”. 
What could too comfortable mean? It differs from one relationship to the other, but a few examples could be:

  1. Less quality time
  2. Less compliments or cute gestures
  3. Less communication
  4. Less saying “I love you”
  5. Appearance
  6. Intimacy
  7. Less hard work to make the relationship work
  8. Lacking responsibilities one once had.

That’s just a few, if you can think of more, please drop it in the comments section. 


Even though those things may seem like minor issues that couples endure, they can become bigger problems down the road. When people ask me for advice in this matter, I’ll tell them to C̶O̶M̶M̶U̶N̶I̶C̶A̶T̶E̶ Effectively Communicate with their significant other. Go into the conversation with an open mind, speak calmly, and be respectful. Also, we have to remember that nothing changes overnight. It takes time, patience and leading by example. 
Has this been anyone else? Can you admit that you’ve gotten too comfortable in your relationship before? Let’s discuss below. 

Thanks for reading!!!
Nicole Cherise ❤️

Success killers

It’s one of the saddest things to accept. Sometimes, this is family, best friends, even your significant others can do this. Most of the time they discourage you from making valuable decisions because they can’t be without you or don’t want to see you do better. 

Reality
Friends, in life, we learn then we spread our wings. Don’t let anyone stop you from soaring to your top potential. They want you to be good, but not Great. You’re an adult with one life to live, therefore, be Great!
Thanks for reading friends!

Nicole Cherise ❤️

You can do it

Hi friends!

Taking the first step in any choice we make is always the hardest. I too, am very scared at times to step out of my comfort zone. Sometimes, I would sit and ponder all the possibilities of how my life can change but then I say “but” aka excuses. The truth is, the only way to know if something is good for you is to try. If it doesn’t work out or you fail the first few times that’s ok because you did give it a chance. 

Let’s challenge ourselves to take the hardest step. Rather it’s a relationship, a new career, relocating, or a new hobby, give it a try.

Nicole Cherise❤️

Express your self

You have to speak up for what you need. Rather, it’s big or small, a need for us is very vital. We’ve heard the expression “closed mouths don’t get fed” therefore, speak what you need into the universe. 

This may be a need for spiritual guidance, physical wellness, financial stability, emotional and mental clarity, or anything else, just say it. I believe when we speak things into existence, we will do the work to achieve it. 
I hope this can help someone today.
Thanks for reading friends 
Nicole Cherise❤️

Feel good Friday’s 

Horrible rain was suppose to come in our area but it’s been sunshine. 

Isn’t that how life is? Sometimes we are headed for disaster but instead the outcome was remarkable. Therefore, I give thanks no matter the situation. 

Have you ever been in situations where you just knew, things wouldn’t work out but they did? 

Hang in there friends, relief is on the way.

Thanks for reading, enjoy your weekend!

Nicole Cherise ❤️

F.F: each morning…

I feel blessed.

I’m blessed to open my eyes and see my husband and son. With all the challenges that I deal with, the love for my family, always puts a smile on my face. 

I hope there is something or someone in your life, that no matter what is going on, you can smile. My family is my back bone, the extra strength that I endure at times when I really need it. They accept me flaws and all. 

What about you? Who or what makes you feel good?

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