Self reflect

Many would think that it’s weak of me to cry, or disliked the fact that I wore my heart on my sleeve. I would get angry anytime that my eyes filled with water while chatting with someone. Until one day someone shared that it was my strength and a part of my beauty.

How many can relate? We have to be kinder to ourselves. Possibly change our perspective as well. Be Well friends ❣️❣️❣️

Nicole Cherise ♥️

It’s your story

You Are the Author. You have to describe the details. How can someone else truly know the depth to YOUR character?

We can all get writer’s block, experience many times of uncertainty, often question “What are we doing with ourselves?” and so on. However, don’t throw that towel in, regroup and Continue On!

You got this. I got this. We got this. Let’s not give up on ourselves 💪🏾

Thanks for reading friends!

Nicole Cherise ♥️

Feel Good Friday: Love Self!

Happy Friday!!!

Do you remember when you realized you loved You? Yes, you, yourself. Have you accepted you for you and all that it entails? I’m at that point and it feels good.

It’s not easy to do this, but I know that I needed to get to this space because I can’t expect love from others if I don’t possess a love for myself as well. When I say love ourselves that includes the ups and downs, the beautiful and not so beautiful. I know that I’m overall emotional, sensitive (the gift and curse), competitive, stubborn, can be loud, and tend to keep my feelings bottled up until I exploded (oh, not good I know). However, I’m also, loving, honest, loyal, supportive, hardworking and more.

I’m sure many of you share similar characteristics and can relate. So, I ask this question: if we want others to live and accept us as we are, don’t you think we ought to love and accept ourselves as well? I know that I’m growing every day, the many flaws that I have (some I’m sure I forgot to mention lol) I do work on. So, even though I accept and love me, I know the importance of striving to be a better me. I hope and pray you can do the same.

Woo, that felt great! Have a great day everyone and I hope this post helps someone today!

Thanks for reading,

Nicole Cherise ♥️

Feel Good Friday: I love helping people

For the Love of the People.

I love connecting with people and helping them. It brings joy to my heart knowing that I set an impact on someone’s Life.

In the past few weeks, I’ve met new people. Some were from work and others were fellow MS Warriors. I’ve also have made new connections with people from views of my YouTube videos.

Maybe this is my purpose? Being a voice for those who are unable to share their struggle. Being that ear to listen when some feel that there is no one to listen. That support when many feel they are alone.

Therefore, thank you to my new pals. Thank you to my supporters. Thank you to the people who follow or have subscribed to my sites. I appreciate you all more than you will ever know. You all play a vital role in my search for Purpose and Healing.

Helping others, makes me feel good on this “Feel Good Friday”.

Thanks for reading,

Nicole Cherise ♥️

Our time is Approaching!

Happy Friday friends!

Have you ever had this feeling deep inside that things are starting to get better even after you recently faced a tough hurdle? That’s how I’ve been feeling.

Lately, I’ve been so stressed out because of student loan debt, the urgency of wanting to be a home owner and more! What keeps me going is knowing that I’m not alone. I have my family and friends to lean on during these times and that is a major key for my sanity lol!!

I can’t lie and say not to worry because it’s human nature, however, I will say Keep BELIEVING! Your time is coming, My time is coming, OUR TIME IS COMING! Don’t give up, Don’t Give in!

Thanks for reading!

Nicole Cherise ♥️

Feel Good Friday: Seek comfort in your S.O. but don’t get too Comfortable. 

Hi friends! Happy Friday to all! 
Isn’t this always the topic of discussion amongst friends? You are deeply in love with your partner. You reached a place in the relationship where you are happy, trusting and loyal to one another. However, some how, you both get too “comfortable”. 
What could too comfortable mean? It differs from one relationship to the other, but a few examples could be:

  1. Less quality time
  2. Less compliments or cute gestures
  3. Less communication
  4. Less saying “I love you”
  5. Appearance
  6. Intimacy
  7. Less hard work to make the relationship work
  8. Lacking responsibilities one once had.

That’s just a few, if you can think of more, please drop it in the comments section. 


Even though those things may seem like minor issues that couples endure, they can become bigger problems down the road. When people ask me for advice in this matter, I’ll tell them to C̶O̶M̶M̶U̶N̶I̶C̶A̶T̶E̶ Effectively Communicate with their significant other. Go into the conversation with an open mind, speak calmly, and be respectful. Also, we have to remember that nothing changes overnight. It takes time, patience and leading by example. 
Has this been anyone else? Can you admit that you’ve gotten too comfortable in your relationship before? Let’s discuss below. 

Thanks for reading!!!
Nicole Cherise ❤️

Success killers

It’s one of the saddest things to accept. Sometimes, this is family, best friends, even your significant others can do this. Most of the time they discourage you from making valuable decisions because they can’t be without you or don’t want to see you do better. 

Reality
Friends, in life, we learn then we spread our wings. Don’t let anyone stop you from soaring to your top potential. They want you to be good, but not Great. You’re an adult with one life to live, therefore, be Great!
Thanks for reading friends!

Nicole Cherise ❤️

You can do it

Hi friends!

Taking the first step in any choice we make is always the hardest. I too, am very scared at times to step out of my comfort zone. Sometimes, I would sit and ponder all the possibilities of how my life can change but then I say “but” aka excuses. The truth is, the only way to know if something is good for you is to try. If it doesn’t work out or you fail the first few times that’s ok because you did give it a chance. 

Let’s challenge ourselves to take the hardest step. Rather it’s a relationship, a new career, relocating, or a new hobby, give it a try.

Nicole Cherise❤️

Express your self

You have to speak up for what you need. Rather, it’s big or small, a need for us is very vital. We’ve heard the expression “closed mouths don’t get fed” therefore, speak what you need into the universe. 

This may be a need for spiritual guidance, physical wellness, financial stability, emotional and mental clarity, or anything else, just say it. I believe when we speak things into existence, we will do the work to achieve it. 
I hope this can help someone today.
Thanks for reading friends 
Nicole Cherise❤️