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W.i.t.l.w: you accept me flaws and all

Hi friends! I hope you are all enjoying your week so far. I was having a conversation with a dear friend and we spoke about flaws. Have you all truly accepted your partner flaws and all? Do you believe they accept all of your flaws?

All relationships take time and should blossom naturally. We are constantly learning ourselves and each other constantly. Even couples that have been together for years, are continually growing together. In my opinion, while growing together we have to keep in mind that our partners are not perfect people but in our eyes perfect for us. I believe it really does take a while to truly master this type of acceptance. We have this ideal mate in our minds and when our partners are “flawed”, we tend to push them to get closer to that image. Keep in mind friends, you fell in love with for a reason and as they are. Problems will arise if we continue to pick at every flaw about them. 
The only options we have to accept them. Accept their strengths and areas where they aren’t the strongest. We need to be supportive because ultimately, we want the same back. 
Enjoy your week!
Nicole Cherise 

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Feel good Friday’s: they should accept you for you.

  
When you accept and  love someone for who they are, and they know it, you will get the best of them. It’s hard to find people who can say they love us flaws and all and is willing to be our biggest supporters. This doesn’t mean that you are free to be a jerk and they have to put up with your shenanigans , however, it’s great to know you are surrounded by a genuine person(s). 

Nicole Cherise